10 How To’s
of Disciple-Making

10 How To’s of Disciple-Making

Identify the right kind of person

Faithful – committed to investing time and energy into growing in Christ 
Available – have regular time to get together 
Teachable – Hungry to know Christ and make Him known (this person doesn’t “have it all figured

Meet them where they are

Get to know your disciple. Find out what they need, where they are in their spiritual walk, what’s going on in their life, learning styles, etc. (1 Corinthians 9:19-23).
Always keep in mind that people are not “projects.” They desire your love, care and best!

Start small and raise the bar

Don’t agree to disciple indefinitely; set an end date. 
Begin with a six-month commitment and set goals for your time.
Reevaluate at the end of the time and either continue and set new goals or conclude your time together.

Be relational - spend time together

Discipleship is not merely educational. 
Brainstorm ways in your regular schedule that you can do life with your disciple. –  Go to the gym – Run errands –  Go to a sporting event –  Share a meal

Teach for life change

In your teaching, address three areas: 
Belief – anchor the gospel in their heart.
Behavior – an anchored gospel should affect their life.
Purpose – changes in belief and behavior are not for the sake of correction, but for a higher mission and purpose.

Build a future leader

As a leader, cast a vision for a lifestyle of disciple-making.
Help them reproduce what they learn to someone they disciple.
Encourage them to pour into other people.

Stretch them

Encourage your disciple to find ways to share what they’ve learned, serve their community and spread the gospel. – Mission trips – Evangelism – Teaching opportunities

Expose them to the faithful

Introduce them to other strong, encouraging believers. Have them meet with those who have different spiritual gift and strengths in certain areas of their walk/life.

Involve them in the local body of Christ

Explain their need for the local church and the local church’s need for them.
Model the importance of the local church through your own habits and priorities.

Be a builder of resources

Actively study God’s Word and Bible-based resources to compile teachings you need to share (i.e. Taking good notes during worship is a great way to build some of those resources).

"When one couple went through a tough time, our discipleship group really rallied around them, and it was a true testament of the relationships we had created and the love we had for each other. "
—Laurin
"It’s important for me to stay in the Word because the Lord will bring Scripture to my mind as I am discipling someone, and it can be just what they needed when I share."
—Lindsay